Kindergarten was the Start of Something Beautiful

First Day of Kindergarten As you may have already been aware; PJ started Kindergarten this year. This was the first “official” school age milestone for him and was a BIG deal for PJ. I have been wanting to write this post for a couple weeks, but have had trouble finding the words to describe this life event. I’ve become a very emotional and sappy man since the birth of my son. Him starting Kindergarten has caused many emotions in me that I can’t even explain. I’ve been sad that he is growing up before my eyes and I feel like I have limited time with him. I honestly feel like it was just last week that I was sitting on his floor in the middle of the night holding him while he fell back asleep. I remember doing the tiptoe dance out of his room after placing him back in his crib sleeping soundly. Those moments, the ones that caused such sleep deprivation, are the moments that I will always cherish and would do all over again in a heartbeat. You never think you will miss those moments in time until you no longer have them.

PJ has been in daycare and preschool for 5 years in preparation for Kindergarten. At his most recent preschool he had spent a lot of time with the kids referred to as the “school agers,” and I could tell he looked up to them. There were some very sweet moments with the school agers that made one’s heart melt. One such moment involved one of the older girls who would sit with PJ and read books to him while they waited for parents to pick up. He always seemed so happy sitting with her, admiring her ability to tell a tale, and listening to her read. Now that PJ is a school ager himself, I can’t help but think that will be him someday reading to another friend who can’t yet read for themselves. Whether or not I was ready; PJ was definitely ready for kindergarten. PJ_At_School

The first day of kindergarten came and went in a flash, leaving only photos behind to remember it by. One moment I was standing with him in the parking lot before school and the next moment he was explaining how he couldn’t remember what he did at school. Some things never change little buddy.

Two weeks into the school year was “Back to School” night at his school. This was the evening set aside for parents to come to the school and attend a presentation by the principal and then be guided around the school by our kids. PJ was super excited to show me around his school and quite honestly I was thrilled to be there with him. I felt such a huge sense of pride as I watched him introduce me to each one of his teachers, even ones whose names he hadn’t memorized yet. He took my hand and guided my down the halls of his school with a huge grin on his face and happy hop in his step. As we navigated the large crowd of students and parents; I would hear everything from “Daddy, look at this art project we did. Isn’t it awesome” to “Hi Spanish Teacher!” and then her returning the greeting with a “Hello, kindergarten student!” I could tell he belongs there – he is ready – he has arrived.

“As I followed him down those hallways at school that evening; I saw him age from birth all the way through High School, and I was happy with what I see for him in his future.” -Me

Any sad feelings that I’ve experienced lately have an equally happy counterpart. I’ve been so unbelievably happy that he’s grown up before my eyes to be such a wonderful young man. He truly is the most remarkable person I have ever known. He lives in the moment, has an edgy competitiveness, soaks up knowledge like a sponge and has such compassion and unconditional love for others. He embodies everything I’d wished he’d be. With so much room for growth and development in his future, I can only imagine what a wonderful man, husband and father he will become one day. For me; Kindergarten was the Start of Something Beautiful!

Thank you for reading, 


I Get By – Will You Remain a Bystander?

“I get by with a little help from my friends”


Yes, that quote is actually a lyric from a song titled “With a Little Help From My Friends” by this little group called The Beatles. But even more than that, it’s something that I’ve come to learn and understand more and more in the recent years.

I’ve been going through some personal struggles over the past couple years the likes of which I have never experienced in my life before. I’ve seen the woman I considered my partner for life hurt me in ways that I would have never imagined or expected from such a beautiful soul. A relationship, in order to survive, needs to have a certain measure of effort from all parties involved in the relationship. In the end; my marriage was not receiving the care it needed and therefore it came to an end with the same measure of effort being put into it that had been given it over the past couple years. Life really has been a struggle at times trying to get to a place of acceptance and understanding that this is NOT my fault. Sure, there are things that I do take responsibility for with regard to our relationship. But one thing I know for certain is that I never gave up on my marriage and I did put in the effort to make it work.

What does all of this even mean, Chris?

What I’m trying to say is that over the past year, when times were at their darkest, I was welcomed into a group of Dad Bloggers on Facebook. The man who welcomed me into the dad bloggers group with warm, open arms is Oren Miller from A Blogger and a Father. When I joined this cast of merry men I never expected to find a group of guys who really are a community. They truly are a group of Dads who watch out for each other, whether it’s helping with technical questions, helping get exposure for really great writing or helping someone out in their time of need. The support I was seeing within this community of dads was very foreign to me. After all, I was not accustomed to seeking out support or assistance from anyone. I’m a man and men don’t show their feelings, ask for help or cry in public. Right?!? The truth is that as I was welcomed into this group of dads who have been through many similar experiences, I was starting to realize that it is ok to reach out for help when you need it. I think my fear was always that people would judge me or think negatively of me for expressing my feelings or talking about my struggles. No – people aren’t going to judge you. Well, if you wear pajamas to the bus stop they might.

Recently Oren Miller, the man who created the Dad Bloggers group on Facebook, was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer. The diagnosis of cancer cut our group of 800 dads to its core. We didn’t know what to say or do. All we had was a cumulative sense of sadness. Even at this time of fear and pain, Oren knew exactly what to say, just as he always did. I encourage you to ready Oren’s diagnosis announcement here. You’ll have a tough time reading it with dry eyes, but it’s amazing and inspiring. The man who brought me into this group, the man who made it possible for me to see the good that can come from reaching out for support is in need of support himself right now.

As expected, the Dad Bloggers group has rallied around Oren offering as much support as we can both emotionally and financially. Led by Brent Almond of, a fundraising site was quickly established where we could raise funds to help support Oren and his family with anything they need. I know that many people feel like they have a limited budget, and believe me, most of the dads who are members of our Dad Bloggers group, including myself, don’t have a lot of money. But ya know what?…A little contribution from a lot of people can equal huge results, and in just a matter of hours we had raised the $5,000 goal amount and began setting our sights higher. Our next goal is to reach $30,000 and be able to provide as much relief to Oren and his family as we possibly can. Here’s where you can get involved and put an end to the “bystander effect.”

Please visit Oren’s GiveForward fundraiser page and consider contributing to help his family while they cope with this diagnosis. You may not know Oren Miller, but someday you might need someone like him to help you out.

Will you remain a bystander?

I thank you from the bottom of my heart.

- Chris

New Music: Recess Monkey to Release Wired June 17th

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Have you ever listened to Kids Place Live on SiriusXM? If the answer is yes, have you ever listened to the kids call-in show Live from the Monkey House? If the answer to this is also yes, then you’re already familiar with Jack Forman who is the host of that show. What you may not be aware of is that Jack Forman is also a bass player and singer in the group Recess Monkey, a nationally acclaimed trio of teachers who make music for kids and parents that truly rocks. Forman is joined by Drew Holloway on guitar and vocals as well as Korum Bischoff on drums. I love the fact that these guys have backgrounds in teaching which I believe comes through in their music.

Inspired by the breathtaking creativity and inventiveness of today’s DIY kids, Recess Monkey celebrates “maker” culture with the band’s eleventh studio recording, Wired. As with all their albums, Wired is grounded in real life children’s experiences.

Wired, a collection of super-eclectic “gadget rock” songs about inventions, machines, and electricity, also highlights the richness of life beyond batteries:  Grandpa’s wisdom, board games, singing with others, storytelling, and the fine art of duct tape.

Something so cool that it can’t be overstated is that Wired was produced at John Vanderslice’s famed Tiny Telephone Recording in San Francisco, where everything was recorded on tape with analog equipment.  Can you believe it, ANALOG recording in the day of digital?!? Recess Monkey found working with John Vanderslice to be like observing the machinations of a mythic alchemist practicing his craft.   Vanderslice and engineer Jamie Riotto created incredible effects “on the spot” during live takes, twisting knobs with one hand while altering the speed of the tape with another, bringing to Recess Monkey the realization that Vanderslice and Riotto weren’t simply producer and engineer, but truly members of the band.

“It cannot be overstated what huge fans we are of John Vanderslice, and the experience of gettting to make music with him at the helm was downright life-changing.  Removing computers from the recording equation forced us to rely on our ears, as in the days before digital.  This was the perfect approach for an album inspired by ‘outside the box’ creativity!” – Jack Forman

Recess Monkey‘s trademark over-the-top, loaded-with-humor lyrics are again delivered with the band’s amazing mastery of diverse musical styles.  My favorite tracks on this album are right around the middle in tracks #5, 6 and 7. One favorite track is “Grandpa is a Time Machine” because I love talking to “the greatest generation” and hearing stories about their lives when they were my age or younger. Our grandparents are a wealth of knowledge if we allow them to be. I’m a big fan of The Beatles music, and therefore “Wishing Well” is another one of my favorites. “Wishing Well” includes a guitar solo that pays homage to the great George Harrison and once you listen to it you’ll understand why I like this song. The last of my favorite songs I’d like to mention is “Brick by Brick.” This track is about Legos, the original “maker” toy, and what parent kid doesn’t love some play time with Legos? As you may already have gathered, I don’t think there is a single track on this album that I don’t like. They are all fantastic!

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Track Listing:

  1. Take Your Kid to Work Day – 2:50
  2. Wired – 2:03
  3. Braces – 2:45
  4. Car Wash – 3:48
  5. Grandpa is a Time Machine – 3:01
  6. Wishing Well – 2:19
  7. Brick by Brick – 2:21
  8. The Great Diorama – 2:39
  9. Garage Sale – 3:16
  10. Duct Tape World – 3:34
  11. Shutterbug – 2:44
  12. Skee Ball – 2:49
  13. Lazy Susan – 3:04
  14. Batteries Not Included – 2:50
  15. Off the Grid – 2:30


A little more about the band:

Recess Monkey released their debut CD, Welcome to Recess Monkey Town, in 2005, followed by another popular hit, Aminal House, in 2006.  The band made history with their 2007 release, Wonderstuff, the first double CD children’s album.  These releases were followed by 2008′s Tabby Road, 2009′s Field Trip, 2010′s The Final Funktier, 2011′s In Tents, 2013′s Deep Sea Diver and Desert Island Disc, and now Wired.

Ten Recess Monkey songs have reached #1 on SiriusXM’s Kids Place Live chart.  Kids Place Live Program Director Mindy Thomas declared, “In this never-ending nationwide talent show of kid and family music, they are most definitely at the top.”  Explained kids’ music authority Stefan Shepherd (, “Recess Monkey just keeps turning out album after album with pop nuggets, as if we’d just discovered The Beatles had recorded a ton of kids’ music 40+ years ago.”

Wired will be available at,, iTunes,, Silver Platters, Sonic Book Records, and Barnes & Noble.



Highlights – Spring/Summer 2014

May 17              Benaroya Hall with the Seattle Symphony, Seattle

June 26             Music Center at Strathmore, N. Bethesda, MD

June 26             SiriusXM Rumpus Room, Washington, DC

June 28             Longwood Gardens, Kennett Square, PA

June 29             Philadelphia Museum of Art, Philadelphia, PA

August 2           Rox in Sox Festival, Lake Oswego, OR


Check out Recess Monkey‘s website at where you can listen to the tracks from Wired.

My Vacation to Sears #DestinationDad



Father’s Day is coming up fast, and this year, like many others, I had no idea what I might want for Father’s Day. Of course at the top of my list is spending time with my son doing something fun. When it comes to gifts or material items, I don’t usually ask for much. There’s never anything I can think of that I actually need, and I don’t usually think about receiving gifts that I want if its not something I need. I thought the best thing I could do to get some ideas for Father’s Day was to take a little vacation to clear my mind and come up with something.

Where did you go on vacation, Chris?

Well, I went where any dad would love to go. I threw on my favorite Outdoor Life Twill Shirt and headed to #DestinationDad at Sears. After all, Sears really could be your Father’s Day gift one-stop shop.

Vacations make you hungry, so we got out the Kenmore 4 Burner Gas Grill with Folding Side Table and made some fantastic burgers.

I took my burgers over to electronics to watch the game on the Samsung 46″ LED HDTV.

Between periods of the big game, I caught up on some of my emails and social media accounts on the Samsung Galaxy Tab3 Lite 7″ Tablet.

Of course I had to work off the burgers. Just because I’m on vacation doesn’t mean I don’t need to stay in dad-fabulous shape. So I headed over to the exercise equipment and found a nice piece of BowFlex equipment to pump some iron on.

A dad’s work is never done. The grass needed clipping while I was on vacation so I hopped on my Craftsman lawn tractor and got my cut on.

All good things must come to an end. And so my vacation was also coming to an end. As a memento of my vacation to Sears #destinationdad, I swung by the jewelry counter and picked up a Citizen Men’s Quartz Stainless Steel Watch. Now I look Gooood.

This vacation was one to remember, thanks to Sears.

And now Sears wants you to honor dad this Father’s Day through “Snap Your ‘Stache” – a nationwide search for the greatest moustache.

  • Now through June 15, moms and kids can take a photo of dad’s moustache – or he can snap a moustache selfie – and share it at for a chance to win the ultimate Father’s Day gift – a trip to the Craftsman MAKEcation where he’ll meet a celebrity and learn to make whiskey, roll cigars, grill steaks, and amass survival skills.
  • Runner up prizes include other great gifts including a Craftsman Quiet Lawnmower Craftsman portable gas grill and Craftsman MACH Series tools.
  • Don’t let a bare lip stop you from entering the contest; get creative and draw one on, use a sticker or hold something to create your best ‘stache. Plus, everyone who enters will receive $5 in Shop Your Way points to use on the perfect Father’s Day gift. Plus, Shop Your Way members can vote for their favorite moustache submission, which will enter them into a sweepstakes for 250,000 in points (a value of $250).

Sears is the destination for great gifts for Father’s Day, including popular brands of grills, tools, fitness equipment, consumer electronics and apparel that can be purchased in-store, online or from a phone.

Visit to enter the contest, vote for the best ‘stache and find the hottest deals on gifts for dad.


Disclosure: I partnered with Sears and Life of Dad, LLC for this Father’s Day promotion and was compensated for my involvement.



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