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What Are The Issues That Family Therapy Could Solve?

No matter how much you put effort into making your family perfect, there will always be times when arguments and disagreements will show up. Just because you go through these things does not mean that there is neither love nor respect in the family. Sometimes, members of the household experience misunderstandings because they have different views on some issues or topics. Because of this, everyone is reminded to settle problems and differences with his family at all times. Luckily, there is now a family therapist who could help people solve these filial issues. “Family therapy is designed to help families collaborate to address family problems,” Blake Griffin Edwards, MSMFT, LMFT explains. “The course of treatment is often brief, and most family therapy models seek to address the communication (verbal and nonverbal) styles of the family, as well as any individual issues that may be interfering with the cohesiveness of the family system.”


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Below are some of the issues that an excellent family therapist could solve:


  1. Financial Matters. Many people fight over money. This is probably why it is called the root of all evil. If this is a big issue in your family, then be sure to get in touch with a therapist as soon as possible. Act fast so that the situation can be improved for everyone in the family. Do not delay the resolution of your financial woes because doing so could drive the members away from each other.


  1. Marital Problems. Are you having some trouble with your marriage? Do you want to save the marriage? A good family therapist is all you need to get over this challenging experience. Take note that divorce is not the only solution to your problem. It is highly recommended to see a professional first to try fixing the marriage.


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  1. Addiction. Is anyone in the family suffering from substance abuse or dependence on alcohol? Keep in mind that addiction is a mental health problem. You cannot rely on medications to make your loved one feel better or overcome his addiction. Sometimes, the services of a family therapist become necessary. Help a family member with addiction by bringing him to a professional.


  1. Chronic Illness. When someone in the household is suffering from chronic pain or disease, then there is a high possibility that he may also experience depression, anxiety, and other mental disorders. The best thing to do is to make the individual feel that he is a big part of the family. Seeing a family therapist can help you go through with this.


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  1. Divorce. Separation of the parents can be painful for the kids. When a divorce takes place in the family, the first thing that you must do is to make your children understand why you need to part ways with the other spouse. There is a possibility that they will not take it lightly. As such, try to bring them to a family therapist.  “Children’s needs for protection from parental conflict must be addressed before the establishment of any co-parenting arrangement after separation, and a full range of supports must be made available to parents in high conflict situations,” says University of British Columbia associate professor of social work Edward Kruk, Ph.D. “Within these programs, children’s needs become a means of connecting the parents in a positive direction at a time when conflict has divided them.” Seek professional help so that your kids will have a better understanding of the divorce.


Indeed, a family therapist is equipped with knowledge and expertise to help solve problems and issues in every household. Furthermore, “The family therapist works with the awareness that each human being is not merely an individual, but is also a part of many social groups or social systems,” according to Marilyn Wedge, Ph.D. “Family therapy is effective because it harnesses the power of the family to heal itself.” Whenever you feel like things have become hard or stressful for everyone in your family, do not hesitate to get in touch with this professional. The fees may be expensive, but if you look at the advantages that you will get, the costs are worth it.



Tips On How To Look For A Psychiatrist

As a man, it could be difficult on your part to finally decide that you need help in processing your emotions. This decision is major, which is why you could not afford to make an error in choosing the right psychiatrist. As much as possible, take all the necessary steps before you decide. The first thing that you have to understand at this point is that choosing a psychiatrist is the initial step in improving your life. To ensure that nothing will go wrong, keep these tips in mind: 

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Teaching Your Son How to Ride a Bike

Teaching your child how to ride a bike and seeing him/her learning how to do it is a memorable milestone for both of you. It is a skill that most parents are proud to teach their children while at the same time using it as a way to make the parent and child bond stronger. However, it isn’t as easy as it looks. Most of the time, it will result in bruises and abrasions on the child and backbreaking experiences for dads. Still, it is worthwhile to see them slowly making progress and learning how to balance on their own.

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Three Reasons Why Dads Are Important

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It’s easy for most guys to become someone’s baby daddy. However, it’s hard to become an actual father to a child.  We know that it’s a no-brainer that both parents are vital in making sure that a child will grow up correctly, most of the credits usually go to the mother.   And that is wrong because fathers also play a fundamental role in the family and more in a child’s overall development. Sure, not all dads are good enough to be given recognition but how about those who work hard every day just to give their families the kind of life they deserve?

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A Single Father’s Parenting Struggle: “Am I Not Enough?”

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There are a lot of things I wanted to ask my children, but I am too afraid to do so. There have been some questions that needed answers, and I needed to get it straight from them, but then I couldn’t. Being a father is a tough job because you always have to show your kids that things are okay even if it’s not. You can’t reveal them your weakness or all else will fall apart.

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Best Father And Son Bonding Activities

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Do you sometimes feel that you’re too busy working and you realized you haven’t given enough time for your kid? It is undeniably true that a father’s duty demands a lot of time in the workplace compared to the amount of time he has to be at home. Though that’s the typical thing to happen, dads should take time to exert effort in providing specific activities with his kids. Here are some of the things he can do to maintain a father and kids bonding.

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Tips On How You Can Have A Better Relationship With Your Dad

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The relationship that we have with our dads can be quite complicated at times, especially if you’re a boy. Unlike what many people think, sons don’t always get along with their fathers. Do you know why? It’s because we don’t regularly share the same interests and opinions with them.  And this difference often causes communication problems which can further damage or strain the already rocky relationship.

“[T]he relationship between father and child can have a significant impact on the child’s tendencies toward depression and behavior problems,” says Rick Nauert, PhD.

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Things We Should Tell Our Dads More Often

Not all fathers are the same, that’s a given fact.  However, for those who are doing an excellent job at being a Dad, it is our duty as their children to thank them for it. Because without them we won’t be here, that’s why. No seriously, we need to give them more credit for the things they have done and are still doing for us. They won’t be here forever, that’s why we need to start showing them how much they mean to us.


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Reasons Why You Should Never Physically Punish Your Child



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Parents are always responsible for their kid’s actions, and as much as they want them to learn new things in life, there will invariably be a time when kids will eventually commit mistakes. As a father, I used to hit my child as a way of informing him that what he did was wrong and it was punishable. As a parent, I thought I should be in control of every situation. I administered physical abuse following my anger. It became a routine that spanking was a necessity for my disciplinary practice. Little did I know that it was the worst part of my parenting method because it created a lasting harmful effect on my child’s overall development.

“Physical punishment elicits precisely the negative affects one does not want in parent-child relationships and in socializing children: distress, anger, fear, shame, and disgust.” Paul C Holinger M.D. explains.

Justifying The Act

Spanking (or also known as corporal punishment) enables a child’s brain to react alarmingly so they can respond to the process accordingly. In other words, when you hit a child, part of his brain (prefrontal cortex) shuts down the center of their reasoning and judgment and only reacts to ridiculous fear. “According to attachment theory, important parts of the child’s brain are highly activated under conditions of threat (e.g., separation, physical assault). Spanking is a condition of threat.” Gail Goodman, Ph.D. says. It seems to work in some cases and scenarios because children then understand the concept of right and wrong. It gives us parents the ability to impose unbreakable rules that teach children to follow consequently.


The Result In Children At Early Stage

Physical punishment on a child can inflict more serious harm that parents often ignore. The kid becomes more aggressive and withdrawn, and that initially endangers his mental and psychological health. It affects the child’s emotional entitlement and loses his self-worth. He becomes distant and secretive and sometimes eventually ends up with lying just to get away with the punishment. A child grows more insensitive and finds it hard to trust people around him. He may use his traumatic experience to devalue his worth.


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The Result In The Adolescent Stage

Spanking is considered physical abuse and the more we continue to practice it, the more it promotes anger on our child. He may end up realizing that physical violence is normal and is not something to address. He will likely use it as a mode of interaction with his peers and validate the action for a personal reason. The child will eventually show severe psychological drawbacks from spanking where they’ll turn out to become egocentric and antisocial.


The Adulthood Aftermath

When a child experienced physical abuse at an early stage and continued to receive punishment in the adolescent years, he will (most likely) develop violent behaviors until his adulthood. He will become short-tempered. He will have a mindset that physical abuse is normal and use it to attain dominance in the house. He will have problems dealing with anger management that can eventually result in domestic violence. According to Jessica Kendorski, Ph.D., “Brain science is showing us that warmth and nurture are essential to brain development.”


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As I observed, my kid grew up and became the person I didn’t expect him to become. I blamed myself for every physical abuse I made in the past. It was not worth it. It didn’t help me in any way. I thought I was currently doing the right thing but the violence I imprinted on his physical, emotional, and mental health was beyond a parental sin. Spanking doesn’t work in promoting good behavior. Instead, it creates another generation of abusive parents that damage their child’s well-being.


Growing Up Without A Father: The Passive Outcome

A father is one of the significant factors that make a home complete. Without him, the whole aspect of a child’s healthy development can encounter complications. The importance of their role is inevitable because they are a contributor to a child’s overall well-being. It is the father’s responsibility to be there for his kid and support his psychological functions. Without him, a fatherless child will intensely suffer in both emotional and mental states.

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